The following is a guest post by Tiffany of tiffanydawn.net
Wondering if the person you’re dating is a good fit for you?
Hey girls, my name is Tiffany, and in this video I share my own story of a really bad relationship. And I mean bad.
This boyfriend literally told me, “I’m having a hard time falling in love with you because my ex-girlfriend is a ten [on a beauty scale] and you’re just not that attractive to me.”
It seems obvious that I should have dumped him immediately, right?
The only problem was, by the time I stopped making excuses for my boyfriend and realized how bad the relationship was, I felt stuck, with zero self-confidence, and didn’t think anyone else would ever love me.
That was several years ago, and thankfully I learned a lot from my mistakes! So I want to share what I’ve learned with you, so you don’t have to end up in the same painful situation I did.
Here are four warning signs I’ve learned, that you can use to figure out whether or not your dating relationships are healthy. Comment beneath the video any other warning signs you would add! I hope you enjoy!
Francine Briones
My name Francine i luv my guy Danny i done smthg wrong i listen 2 every1 at church i walk out awy frm
him…had x to thnk am not doi g tht agn…he ben thr 4 me…n ask 4gvnss…ask jst to luv him ehich his a new bgnr n Christ…i ben lost n confuzz didnt knw wht 2 do…i lnw b4 him waz church now his n my life i was doing thngs in my way…Wrong he rgt we spent no x …takg care of r parents n the house n rselfs wasnt heathy i came home tired work church n work at home …relizg this is not good at all …now he done me wrong in i 4gv him…now i gave us x time away am glad bcuz i Pray n GOD open my eyes n now …my decisn is go n live n praise GOD n keep JESUS 1st …no perfc relatshp no perfc persn so no one from church shld ben sayg yr sinning n yet who was or ben perfc in life …i was judge n thy made me cry…now i pray4 may steps n heart r lead by truth FAITH n CHRIST…no one elses decision xcpt mine bcuz i been sad …wth all i oray now we rgv n move on wth no controll nut RESPCT …Thnk y 4 yr x in the blessg video …blessg for u n yr new luv AMEN+?…Sincerly Heart of a Women tht wz confzz FRANCINE
E.R. Gonzalez
“Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will direct your paths.” Proverbs 3:5-6
Savannah
I’ve been through a few relationships like that and boy am I so glad I learned my self worth and that I didn’t have to be treated poorly, manipulated, put down and hide from the people who really love me! Once I learned my self worth, is when I found my husband who was unlike an man I would have normally gone for due to realizing how valuable I am as a person.
Loved this and totally sharing for other guys and girls who might be in a situation like this!